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We Had No Rules

We Had No Rules

By Corinne Manning
Categories: LGBTQ+, Lesbian Literature, Women's Literature, Fiction
Paperback : 9781551527994, 192 pages, 2020
Expected to ship: 2020-04-01
Expected to ship: 2020-04-01


A defiant, beautifully realized story collection about the messy complications of contemporary queer life.

A young teenager stays a step ahead of her parents' sexuality-based restrictions by running away and learns a very different set of rules. A woman grieves the loss of a sister, a "gay divorce," and the pain of unacknowledged abuse with the help of a lone wallaby on a farm in Washington State. A professor of women's and gender studies revels in academic and sexual power but risks losing custody of the family dog.

In Corinne Manning's stunning debut story collection, a cast of queer characters explore the choice of assimilation over rebellion. In this historical moment that's hyperaware of and desperate to define even the slowest of continental shifts, when commitment succumbs to the logic of capitalism and nobody knows what to call each other or themselves - Gay? Lesbian? Queer? Partners? Dad? - who are we? And if we don't know who we are, what exactly can we offer each other?

Spanning the years 1992 to 2019, and moving from New York to North Carolina to Seattle, the eleven first-person stories in We Had No Rules feature characters who feel the promise of a radically reimagined world but choose complicity instead.


With elegant precision and understated glee, We Had No Rules opens up the ache between heartbreak and self-actualization -- between theory and practice, intimacy and belonging, community and loss. By confronting the regimentation in queer lives and loves, Manning explores the push and pull of intergenerational yearning in surprising ways. Tidy in structure yet emotionally unresolved, We Had No Rules rejects false closure, daring us to come up with our own answers. -Mattilda Bernstein Sycamore, author of Sketchtasy

These stories are exquisite portals into the weird, scary, hilarious, hot, and revelatory moments that make up a queer life. I recognized Manning's characters immediately: they are me, my friends, my guides, my mistakes. What an act of humanity to have written them. -Melissa Febos, author of Whip Smart and Abandon Me

Corinne Manning's smart, funny debut collection is a necessary reminder that individuals are more than any one single identity - whether of gender or race or sexuality or job or taste in music or position on the great wallaby vs kangaroo debate. In other words, these characters are the best mix of surprising and recognizable that any reader of good short stories could ever hope to find. Brava! -Rebecca Brown, author of The Gifts of the Body

From its first sentence Corinne Manning's We Had No Rules feels essential, every word charged with meaning and feeling. This book is nothing less than a record of survival, a nervous system on the page, a sequence of stories in which characters attempt to make better, truer relationships that want to defy the structures of language that constrict us. Expansive, soulful, vulnerable, sexy, funny, and broken, We Had No Rules is queer all the way down to its bones. -Paul Lisicky, author of Later and The Narrow Door